This word is like an elephant in the room. Everyone see’s it, but no one wants to talk about it. It’s a title once given you are branded for life. Society will NEVER let you forget about it. I know some people who did stuff 20 years ago and when their name is announced that’s the first thing that comes to mind. Being branded as such is dangerous. It follows you for the rest of your life and sometimes after death.
Now, you are probably thinking what is a home wrecker? It’s a person who watches another’s relationship, spots something they want (mainly someone’s mate) and does whatever they can to obtain that person. The means of doing so can be down right dirty, but once that person gets what they want they feel a sense of happiness or completion. Please believe me when I tell you this - the fact that the original relationship may still be continuing the home wrecker may not even care.
My advice to you is this – What goes around comes around. If your in a relationship that is worth fighting for fight for it. If you feel that it’s over do the right thing and end the first relationship before starting another. Now, to anyone one who falls into the home wrecker category know this it’s better to find your own mate rather than steal someone else’s. You may think that you won the battle, but it will come back to bite you in the butt. Some say it is Karma I say it is “Justice by God”. Think about your actions before you do them. Being labeled as a home wrecker is just as bad as being labeled with a STD. People will always watch you like you have the plague and will be very caution when leaving their mates around you. Ask yourself this one question - Is it really worth it?
Some of our "friends" are home wreckers, but we pass judgement in our own privacy and still be friends with them anyway. Some wreckers suffer from their own low self-esteem that they see nothing wrong with it especially if the other person is telling them they are going to leave for the other person. And in the case of "stealing" someone's mate, they can't be stolen if they don't want to be. So the home wreckers are actually the ones at home. They set out and cause themselves all the drama and end up wrecking their own lives. They always get the lesser blame, but quite frankly they are the ultimate wreckers. If this married people stop setting out to bring confusion and hurt into their homes the term home wrecker would not exist. Don't start none, won't be none.
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