Informants

Every ex or potential mate has an informant.  These are the folks who watch you that you may not be aware of. They keep tabs on who you’re with and what you say on the internet. They even watch to see who’s arm your on when walking in the mall.   Informants are disguised as friends, but will report on you when the chance arrives.   Never let them see you sweat. Even if you are miserable you never let that information leave your camp.

Get out there and learn to live again. Hang out with some friends and find  a few new ones.  Have a girl’s night out or a day with the boys, but a pity party at home isn’t something you want to do. Learn to live by the phrase “I’m fearfully and wonderfully made and I don’t have to settle for less”. Here is another rule for you. Once you discover who the informants are you need to learn to look fabulous.   Find someone else and take them to a function where you know everyone is watching. Believe me even if this person isn’t a GQ model it will create a buzz, because it shows you have moved on.  I tend to quote this rule on a regular bases and it’s one I’ve created myself “I can show you that I live better without you than with you”.  As I stated before you never let them see you sweat. Hold your head up high and learn to date and circulate.