Pushing Your Muscle

          A bully or pushy person carries themselves as an enforcer. They thrive on fear or intimidation.  People with these characteristics tend to flex or push their muscle because they feel as if they are due some type of entitlement.  Inflicting pain is something they tend to enjoy. They love the feeling that they can make someone do what they want them to do.  It’s a mind game. These traits are not sexy nor are they cute and bad attitudes received bad service.   I was sitting at my desk and this though came to my mind once you stand up to a person with these traits they are stunned and they really don’t know how to handle it.   Something must have happened to a person who has these traits because this isn’t something your born with it’s something you learn.  It’s never too late to change if you’re dealing with these traits and for those of you who feel fear or intimidation behind this remember this -  God did not place you on this planet to be a doormat for someone else’s insecurities.