When a relationship is over you tend to have a great deal of mixed emotions. For those who wanted their freedom you feel relieved and a celebration is normally followed, but for those whose heart is entangled you leave hurt. I believe we have all have been on both sides of this coin, but the question is how do you go on. First, thing I will say is don’t have a pity party. Sitting around in anger or misery isn’t what you want to do. Your emotions and feelings do matter but what you don’t want to do is to allow depression to set in. Another key thing to remember is if they are an ex they are an ex for a reason. If there were problems in your relationship which haven’t been resolved going back into a relationship with this person is not the answer. Our emotions tend to make us long for what is missing and in those times we tend to make some really stupid decisions. I’m not saying things can’t workout with your ex, but I will say this if neither of you are willing to change you might as well move on. If you were miserable before going back into that same situation isn’t going to change things. Learn to move on. Another thing you want to watch is the ex who tries to keep you in their corner pocket as they date someone else. Sorry you need to understand that you belong to one person and you want that person to only belong to you. This is a time where you don’t want to share. Allowing someone to play with your emotions isn’t something you should do. If they can’t commit to you and you only learn to move on. There is someone out there who will be willing to show you all the love you need, but someone who is clearly playing with your emotions so they can get what they want out of you is not a person you need in your life. Move On – You will be so glad that you did.
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