When ever you’re in a relationship you always have the options to either stay or leave. Sometimes this decision can be hard to do, but at other times you are glad to depart. When you decide to stay you have made a conscience decision to stick it out no matter what. It’s called unconditional love. One thing I must stress in regards to those who tend to stay - do the world a favor and stop complaining. It’s ok to find someone you can talk to about the situation, but there is a big difference between talking and complaining. When you talk you just want to be heard, but when you complain you’re looking for attention. The folks who complain want to be heard and they already know their not going to leave this person, so suck it up and deal with it. When a decision has been made in regards to leaving it’s because you can’t take it anymore. You have tried everything in your power and you don’t see any resolutions. Leaving can also be consider a cop-out if you really haven’t tried everything, but can also work in your favor just like a get out of jail free card. I was talking to a friend of mine the other day and we came up with this conclusion. When dealing with a man once he decides he wants out of a relationship he bounces. Once a man is fed up no conversation needed he’s done, but women tend to hang around and stick it out in relationship which are no good for them mental or physical. Whatever you decide you need to decide what brings peace, joy and love into your life. Constant stress over the same issues with no resolutions is never good for anyone. Also, remember you can’t be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to be. When a person shows no progression in bettering the relationship that’s a clear indication you’re in this thing alone and that’s something you need to consider if you want to stay in the relationship.
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