Still Sorting

I hate for anyone to rush me to process something emotionally when I’m clearly not ready too. I dislike the feeling of being pushed. Pushing a person when they haven’t had time to process their thoughts tends to end in an emotional reaction and someone ends up having to apologizing. Just a friendly text saying I’m thinking of you. Don’t force someone to talk when they clearly don’t want to. I’m one of those folks who likes to take time and process my thoughts. I remain quiet and until my mind has had time to sort it all I just prefer to keep my distance. Crowding my space never gets you the reply that you want if I’m not ready to communicate. I know so many people who are like me. It’s not that we are being mean or nasty it’s just that we need space and we need time. If you had something that you were trying to figure out you wouldn’t care for me constantly bugging you, so allow a person the space needed to sort out their emotions and thoughts. This is also a big issue in marriages today. One side wants to talk and the other side just isn’t ready. You can’t make a decision and say because I want to get this off my chest it’s going to be done. Allow the person the time they need to process, think and by all means calm down. If you allow that person the time they need to handle what needs to be done then your outcome will be so much better.