Unavailable men

First, let me say this isn’t an entry bashing men. It’s quite the opposite. I woke up this morning a little ticked about the measures in which woman go through to obtain men in which are considered unavailable men. You see there unavailable because they belong to someone else. I never understood why certain women take it upon themselves to wear a title of mistress or side chick. The same tricks and games you played to get him are the same one’s you must keep doing in order to keep him, but one must always know that eventually the games you played to snag him will be the games someone else will play to steal him away. If you find yourself always being attracted to unavailable men then honey check the bait you’re serving. A man will do only what you allow him to do and get away with. It is important to know that just like you want someone to respect your relationship you must respect others. I always laugh when I see woman who dress their bodies and faces up to snag a man and then he discovers after talking to her briefly that she’s superficial. No substance at all. Any woman can snag a man, but it’s the quality of the man you should be looking at. If he’s committed or even involved with someone else he’s unavailable – Married hmmmm unavailable, just had kids by someone else months ago and still tied to them emotionally –you got it unavailable. You see unavailable men use you for what they can get out of you and when it’s all over you end up wearing a name that isn’t fitting for a queen. You were placed on this earth to be adored and loved not worn loosely like an old garment. In order for others to shower you with respect one must represent respect.