Last night I
was looking at some comments from people feuding on a social network and all I
could do was shake my head. Even though I knew the people I didn’t know the
situation and it came to my attention that sometimes when you read something
and you don’t know the situation or the history behind it you can come to the
wrong conclusions. Even though I didn’t like what I was seeing it wasn’t my
place to join in. Last week I told this phrase to a friend when a person reads
something on a social network site and they have a bad spirit whatever they
read will always make them think you are referring to them. A guilty conscience
will always think guilty.You see last night I didn’t know the situation and I
already knew good and well it wasn’t about me.I didn’t read anything into it
nor did I reach out to find out what happened.Social networks are what they are
and I will keep saying this until I can’t any more – everything you read isn’t
always about you. I think people give themselves way too much credit.People tend
to see things and think automatically that person is talking about you. Unless
you talk to that person everyday and you know ever detail of what they deal
with on a daily bases it’s never good to assume. Sometimes it’s just best to
see it, pray about it and then keep it moving.I say this because I watched
someone get up in their feelings over this nonsense. Please remember everyone
has the right to freedom of speech. If you don’t like what you read then delete
the person, but to sit on a social networking site and get vexed because
everything you read you think is about you truly means you need to check
yourself.You’re giving yourself way too much credit that you don’t deserve.Oh
and for those who feel your wrong Kee they were talking about me be the bigger
person and pick up the phone and dial all 10 digits.If you can’t do that then
I’ll say this – Mind over Matter and in my mind the situation doesn’t matter so
stop reading to much into it.
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