Have you changed?

            As children we tend to conduct ourselves in ways that we may not realized are not appealing to others.   This morning I woke up checked my phone and noticed I had been invited to an event with some old friends.  I took a moment to look at the guest list and noticed that I hadn’t seen certain names.   The first thing that came to me was this as a child certain people weren’t nice to others so maybe that’s the reason why they didn’t get invited.  I wasn’t shocked that I was invited because growing up I wasn’t a hell raiser.  I tried my best to be nice to everyone, but in looking at this guest list it did speak volumes.  What do you gain when your attitude isn’t beneficial to others?  When we were children we act as children, but if your attitude is the same it was when you were a child then it states you haven’t grown up at all.  People make statements stating they don’t care who likes them, but in all honesty no one likes to be alone.  How would you feel if you didn’t get an invite to an event with people that all know you? I think if it was me I’d think about the person I was and who I am today.  One thing I will say is this when you hurt people as a child it leaves a residue as an adult until you release it.  The moral of this entry is this from childhood to adulthood there should be some changes in your attitude.   If there isn’t then you may want to check yourself.