Single

            Hearing the word single can be a little depressing, but it's something that you have to learn to embrace. The ability to be single can be an awesome experience. You’re free to come and go as you please and to do as you please without having to answer to a mate. There are so many singles that tend to look upon those who are married in hopes of some day achieving the same goal, but to be honest many of us will never have it.  As real as that seems it’s the truth. We tend to chase an unattainable goal and our hearts are stuck on this up and down roller coaster which tends to keep our nerves on the edge. So many people try to tell you what you need to do in hopes of attracting that right person and nothing seems to work. You’re told to wait and even that seems to be a waste of time. Well here is what I suggest. Waiting is great, but don’t make it your life’s mission. Live your life. For those of you who don’t have kids link up with others like you and do adventurous things, white water rafting, traveling, paintball,  camping, hiking etc.. You get my drift. Your wasting your youth sitting around in hopes of being found and by the time you hit mid 30’s your wondering what have I done with my life? My advice is LIVE!  Yes I said it live. I’m not telling you the right one isn’t out there or that you will never get that one true love, but I’m telling you stop making that your life’s mission. If it’s meant to be it will be and if it’s not know that it is well with your soul.  Time that is wasted is time that you can never get back.