Unknown Feelings

             I’ll start off by repeating a statement I’ve quoted for years.   I am a little sister to a group of guys and it never amazes me some of the things they say in my company. I think at times they even forget that I’m around, but there is one person who for some reason seems to be a little scared of his feelings when I come around. This person is a puzzle to me and someone who you just have to follow the wind when it blows because that’s how their emotions are. Last night someone said something that was like a light bulb going off. The quote was said to me Kee I think this person may have discovered feelings for you, but is very scared of those feelings.  I love to joke around and I cut up with the best of them, but it has come to my attention that my innocent joking may have sparked feelings in someone that I would have never imagined in a million years.  Those close to me have been seeing this interaction for some time.  I tend to ignore it because I’ve never put it under a microscope.  Maybe the reason being is because of who it is or what it would do to my life.  Recently someone asked me about this situation and in hearing their feelings on the subject I chalked it all up to this – when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing.  Men are natural hunters so know this I’m not going to destroy your chase.  If he’s interested he’ll step to the plate and if he’s not please understand this  lady will conduct herself as usual and keep it moving.  It can be hard for someone to put their feelings out there because it leaves you feeling vulnerable and scared of possible rejection.  The only way a person can tell if it’s a great match is by stepping out and taking a leap of faith.  Knowing me I can’t say I’ll sit around and wait forever for this person to decide what works for them, but I will say I have no problem hearing someone out and making a decision.