Women tend to go for years not being with a mate. Some men can’t even go a few months. During the years a woman goes without a mate she learns to do things on her own and by herself. She longs for love because woman love the feeling of being loved and companionship. At times we even forget about love. It’s a distance memory of how it felt and sometimes our memories are all in our head. We gave up on love because we felt it gave up on us. This morning I woke up around 6 am I began to read the same book I have read all week and I began to think. There is someone in my life that people think I would be a great companion for me but in all honesty and truth I don’t feel that type of love for that person. You know when you see that person in a room and your heart jumps a beat. You sway side to side when you hear that love ballet and your mind wanders into La-La land over this person. I must admit I care for the person but the feeling of love isn’t there. You see I didn’t forget about love because I know how love makes me feel and in my heart. I can’t settle for someone who doesn’t make me feel like I want to just dance in the sunshine when I’m thinking about our relationship. Never allow the thoughts and comments of others to persuade you into a relationship your heart doesn’t agree on. Also, it’s important to know what love is. It’s more than infatuation or lust it’s a feeling that cuts down to your very soul and being. There is a difference between lusting after someone and really feeling like you don’t want to go another day without that person in your life. Make sure you know the difference because your heart and mind will agree if it truly is love.
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