Lines You Don't Cross

Today I had an interesting call with a friend. Their story was very similar to mine. Whenever you have a person you consider as a friend that is as close as your family it can be hard to handle when you find out that person has tried to make a move on someone you are either dating or have dated.  Some lines should never be crossed. I don't know why some people don't understand this boundary but it's a line that you know is there and you already know crossing it won't have a good ending.  I remember when I was in high school. I dated a guy in whom I thought some day I'd marry.  I could never understand why one of my friends he didn't like to be around. It was like oil and vinegar. You couldn't even ride in the same car with these two. It was until one day he made a statement that stayed with me and is still with me to this day. He stated that he didn't like to be around this person because they didn't know how to keep their hands to themselves.  As a teenager you can imagine the thoughts that raced in my head. I decided to talk to a relative who I knew wouldn't steer me wrong and I told them the comment. I was given two possible reasons for the statement. One was that the female had tried him. Some type of proposition  and the other was the fact that he had witnessed something that didn't sit well with him. I questioned him and he always stated that he had never tried anything with this individual.  Part of me wanted to believe him and the other always thought that  if it did he would take it to the grave because he knew how much it would hurt me.  Bottom-line I never trusted this female around any guy I cared about or even discussed any males I was serious about.  The guy who told me this statement wasn't the only guy I talked to who had warned me. I was warned by an older guy I'd dated as well. He had a sixth sense about females and to this day he still has ill feeling about this female. Bottom-line there are some lines in life you don't cross. It maybe funny to you or just a game but these are the types of games that end up having people on T.V or in a chalk outline.  If you want people to respect your relationship then always know to respect others.  Another thing to be aware of is this anyone who is envious or jealous of what you have please stay on guard because you will never know what games they will play to get what you have.