There are so many ways you can offend a person and some people do it so often they don’t know they are doing it. I tend to hang with two different circles of friends. Some friends have kids and others don’t so you really have to know where you fit in and where you don’t. My friends without kids are just like me free spirit and we get up and go at a drop of a dime. My friends with kids aren’t as available as those who don’t. You see there needs to be a healthy balance. When people constantly throw the fact that you’re not in their situation in your face you learn to step back and hang with a crowd that’s more your style. That doesn’t mean you don’t like them it just means get in where you fit in. Recently I’ve discovered that I don’t have to feel bad if I go out with my friends who are more available and live a life similar to mine. In the past that wasn’t always the case. A good friend told me that we all had choices in life and we made them so don’t feel bad for the life God gave you, so the next time a person tell you they can’t hang with you because it’s family time or their going out with their man don’t get offended because believe me your going to be able to do something that they wish they could be a part of as well. Stay in your lane. Know your role & play your position.
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