Players

            A few weeks ago someone told me that my theory on players was wrong.  I’ll tell you my theory and the person’s comments and you decide.

Theory = Players that play get played by another player.

                                     Person’s Comments – True Players don’t have feelings.

            Ok if you know me get ready for this one.  A man’s ego is something that needs to be stroked. It’s like a cat.  If you stoke it right then it purrs with happiness, but if you pull its tail then they will learn not to bother you again. Everyone has feeling. Which proves this person comments are false. Having feelings is evidence that you can be hurt.    People who date multiple people on the side tend to show that there is something lacking in their lives.  They need attention, and they also want to feel important and needed. This is the reason why they play the field.  I call these folks “MESSY”.  If you’re a player than no one should know who you’re messing with and they defiantly shouldn’t know about each other.  Checkmate! To flaunt that you have multiples on the side shows a sign that you are not loyal and you can’t be trusted. You just broke the ultimate rule in poker – you showed your hand.  Any strong women who finds out she’s being played will leave, but a women who lacks in self esteem will linger around because her biggest fear is being alone.   Women - Know Your Worth!  You are more than a quick lay in someone’s bed.  Don’t allow your self esteem to be weakened by someone who has proven that he’s using you.  If he really cared there wouldn’t be any others. Every man wants a diamond on his arm, a lioness in his bed and a cougar to keep house.  If you can’t be all three, then you just might be another addition to the harem of women he’s playing. Remember a wise women buildeth her house and foolish women plucks it down with her own hands. Now back to my theory. Women are cool, collective and at time devious. Once she discovers that she’s being played a revengeful women will get back at you.  Her game will be tight and at times you will never know you’re being duped. A man’s game isn’t this tight.  Somewhere along the lines he will tell on himself and skillful women will be right there to pick up the clues he just dropped. So in order for a player to not get caught it is best to not play games. Men who tend to play women really do not care about  a woman's  emotions or feelings, but when he gets played by a woman the very ego that he knows he needs stroked is finally crushed.  Hence my theory – Players that play get played by another player.