Insecurities

            I’ve never been a found member of insecurities. I believe this trait comes from low confidence, low self-esteem and the fear of rejections. Growing up girls who showed this trait to me where considered weak. Forgive me for a moment while I continue to keep it real. In high school if you dated my ex, when he still had feelings for me and you showed signs of this trait - It was like adding fuel to my fire. Especially if I no longer wanted him. Just the knowledge alone that you were uneasy was a big kick to me. I’d smile and laugh because I knew the truth. Also, I’ve learned that if you give a person enough rope they will hang themselves. I knew how he felt, you knew how he felt, but what you didn’t know was I had moved on. Women who put all their attention on things like this tend to sabotage their own relationship. There was no need for me to do anything. When it was all over you got exactly what you deserved. You turned your focus from your man to someone who really didn’t care at all. You ended up alone, he ended up wanting me more and I was still happy with the new person in my life. You see when I didn’t lower my standards to play along it showed him that I was the bigger person and to some guys that’s very attractive. It shows growth, so remember this be careful who you show your insecurities to, because you just might do more harm to the situation than needed.