Do You Know What You Really Want?

This is a question that tends to puzzle most men’s minds in regards to women.  It is true that not all women are alike, but the one thing we do have in common is the fact that we want to be loved.   I was always taught by my mother that any women can get a man, but it’s the quality of that man that she should be looking for.    

Love songs have been written and sang about what a man wants to do to us and for us.  Now my question is – If I was to really tell you what I wanted would you be able to handle it?  I’ve never been one to beat around the bush so here goes.  What I want is very simple and I’ll try to break it down like a fraction so you can understand.  How about a man who has a love for God as much as he loves me?  Someone I can trust, submit to and ultimately say I Do too. A man who is willing to serve and obey God in every way.   This man should be treated as a king just as I would want him to treat me as his queen.  A guy with adventure and someone I can be spontaneous with.  Is that it?  Basically Yes!  Short and Sweet and in a nutshell.

Now what does this man get in return.  A woman who will love and respect him. One who has no problem with showing up on his job just to take him out for lunch (my treat).  A single long stem rose delivered to him just because it’s Monday with a note stating I’m thinking of you.  How about a home cooked meal. Yes home cooked and not take-out.  A nice warm bath drawn, waiting your arrival. When you are tired you can crawl into my arms and I’ll rub your head and sing softly in your ears. Oh yes I am a woman of many talents.

When you find the right mate they will not be someone you will just have sex with. They are the ones you make love too.  So woman throw away these long list of 30 items of what you feel is what you need in a man because in all honesty half of the things you have written on that list you don’t even fit the bill for.