Fault

      It can be hard to see when you have done something wrong. We tend see our side, but never see our part in what happen.  You can run as far as you want, but if you don’t clean up the mess you made that mess will follow you were ever you go.  Sometimes it’s not about pointing the blame, but it’s about  clearing the air and your connection with God.  In my life time I’ve witnessed some people who always see themselves as always right and never wrong.  They don’t own up to their part in anything.  In looking at situations like that I’ve come to realize that they will never be able to grow or evolve if they don’t take ownership for the parts they play.   As stated before it’s not always about pointing the blame, but more so having a peace of mind. I remember a while back I wrote an entry on closure.      Don’t live a life living in the shadow of what if. Some people will hurt you and not care about your feelings.   No matter who’s at fault and whatever transpired make sure whatever the final decision is your happy with it and if you’re not then step out and make the change.   It always amazes me when people say the other person was at fault, but they never see the role in which they played.  Sometimes the fault doesn’t belong to the other person sometimes it belongs with you and most times it belongs to both parties.  Decide today how you want to live the rest of your life.  Do you want to live the blame game, a life of harmony or just act like it never happened? Either way you still have to answer to God for whatever hasn’t been  cleared on earth.