My Love Theory

It’s funny how sometimes we really don’t know if we are in love with someone or not.   I came up with this theory and if you are questioning your feelings for someone I want you to give it a try.  I want you to take a moment and play Eric Benet’s song called Spend My Life with You. As the words play take note of how you feel and how this song makes you react.  Listen to each word.   If you have to write your reaction down then do so.  This song has a way of bringing out your feelings.  I understand some people may not have ever heard this song so I’m going to enclose a link to this song at the bottom of this entry.   Once you have listened to the words then I want you to read the rest of this post.

                                              http://youtu.be/Bl3tIXeZRo8

 

Only read this next portion after you have listed to the song.

            Now if you listened to the song and it played and the words didn’t make you think of that special someone.   Then in your heart you consider the person in question as friend.  On the other hand if you find yourself being swept up in the song.  Your feet begin to tap, your body sways from side to side and then your mind begins to wonder about that person. These reactions show signs that you have been hit by the love bug.  Another indication that is a dead give away is after you heard this song did you play it again.  Playing this song more than once is contagious.  It’s a sign that you love how this person makes you feel and this song makes you want to stay in a feeling of bliss that you don’t want to let go.  You feel loved, safe and secure.

             There are other songs you can test this theory on, but in all honesty this song has a way of just bringing out true feelings.  If the words to this song don’t trigger you to react in some way then honey ya’ll are only friends, but if at some point you felt warm and fuzzy or you had a  moment of hope lingering in your head well you already know the rest.   Be careful of those wondering thoughts of a life together if you are not careful you will get caught up in them.  Now for those of you who already know you are in love this song will make you think of that special someone and you will experience moments of wanting to go home just to be next to them.  You might even feel like sending them a little text or a simple call before you get home.  No matter what your reaction is this song will bring something out of you. Oh and for those who just said it’s a nice song I didn’t feel anything well honey you just told on yourself. You need to open your heart up to love and allow it to make you sway from side to side; let your heart go pitter patter. Love is available if you want it but you have to be open to it. Sometimes it’s in the very person your running from or that one person who knows you best but never says a word.