No one likes to be the bad person and there are some things we really don’t want to say, but have too. It can be hard to tell someone that you’re not a good friend or mate. It can be frustrating when you look at everything you have done for a person and the words thank you always escape their lips. I’m not saying this to be evil or mean but sometimes it’s the hard things that need to be said that open a person’s eyes. I remember years ago I dated someone who use the phrase “I love you, but I’m not in love with you”. Hard words to hear when you have been dating someone for a few years. Now that I look back at that I realized he really didn’t know how to love. Love isn’t dating someone and then having side flings on the side. Love is staying with one person and sticking it out through thick and then. As stated before is not that you want to hurt someone feelings, but if you never speak up for yourself then your feelings will never be understood.
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